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Tell us more about the work you do at Loyola.
I just completed 12 years at Loyola Academy. In the last two years, my role has expanded.
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I now work in the principal's office supporting the Associate Principal of Academics in her crucial role of ensuring the quality of instruction, supporting teachers, and promoting student achievement. I am also the Faculty Substitution Coordinator, which was originally a part-time role. My role transitioned to a full-time position for the 2020-2021 school year, due to Loyola's commitment to in-person learning during the pandemic.
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Tell us more about your family.
My husband, Darren, and I have been married for 24 years. We have four daughters:
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We have four daughters: Brooke graduated from Loyola in 2022 and is currently attending the University of Maryland; Lainey graduated in 2024, and just completed her freshman year at the University of Connecticut; Anna will be a junior at Loyola Academy in the fall; and Cara, is entering eighth grade at Wilmette Junior High.
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Tell us about the volunteer work you do with Misericordia.
Growing up, my parents always supported Misericordia (Mis) and attended Mis events, so I have always been familiar with the organization. When my youngest daughter was born with Down syndrome in 2012, my family got involved on a much more personal level.
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When my youngest daughter was born with Down syndrome in 2012, my family got involved on a much more personal level. The first time I stepped on the Mis campus, it was very emotional because with all the worry and unknowns of raising a child with Down syndrome, I instantly knew she would be ok.
Soon after Cara was born, I joined the Women's Auxiliary Board at Mis and have been a member ever since. I volunteer and (time permitting, with four kids and a full-time job) help at events they run. As a family, we have enjoyed being part of the Outreach Program at Mis, which provides programming (play groups, activities, swimming lessons, and more) for young children with special needs. Cara started swimming at nine months old every Saturday in the Mis pool. She loves to swim and is a great swimmer. Additionally, we have enjoyed volunteering in the bakery at Christmas time and during Candy Days in the spring.
When Cara was three years old, her sisters decided to start a bake sale with their friends, donating all the proceeds to Mis. "Muffins for Mis" began in 2015 and continued for five years until the pandemic. It was amazing to see friends, family, neighbors, and our school community at St. Joe's in Wilmette come together to support a great cause.
Aside from my involvement with my family, about eight years ago, a few LA students proposed starting a Misericordia Club at Loyola Academy. When I learned about it, I knew I wanted to serve as the moderator. This past school year, our club had more than 150 members. Throughout the year, we invite Misericordia residents to our campus for sporting events, theater productions, and a field day. Everyone looks forward to hosting our annual Valentine's Day party at Mis. With plenty of fun activities, games, singing, and dancing, it is a club favorite celebration.
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Why were you drawn to the volunteer work you do?
I'm called to this work because of Cara. I want her peers to be inclusive and kind to her.
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The greatest takeaway I’ve learned over the years, whether with kids at Cara’s school or our students at Loyola, has been realizing that when neurotypical students come together with their peers or adults who have special needs, those with special needs lives are enriched but the greater gift is what those with special needs are doing for their neurotypical peers or our students at Loyola.
Growing up, I wasn't exposed to many children or adults with special needs, and it has been eye-opening to see how kind and unintimidated our students are around the Mis community, once they get involved. Much has been done to raise awareness of people's differences, and I'm so proud when my children or my Mis Club students interact with residents. They are so warm, welcoming, and inclusive.
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How did your time at Marillac High School prepare you for your current roles?
Marillac was a very special and welcoming place. The Daughters of Charity at Marillac taught me to be a strong and confident leader—someone who embraces and cares for those in need.
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Time at soup kitchens and working with St. Vincent de Paul and Marillac House were some of the ways we showed our support. In addition to receiving a great education, I also matured, grew as a person, and met some of my closest friends. The Daughters of Charity, notably Sr. Mary Beth, (SMB) Sr. Anne Marie, and Sr. James, made learning at Marillac fun and rewarding.
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Who at Marillac/Loyola influenced or inspired you, and what makes it a special place?
Sr. Mary Beth, or more famously known as SMB by Marillac students, made the biggest impact on me while at Marillac and certainly continues to make an impact on my life today.
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I have two older sisters who attended Marillac, so I grew up knowing that I wanted to be a Northstar. My relationship with SMB began while I was still in elementary school. My parents were close to the sisters.
As the only student to attend Marillac from my grade school (St. Phillip in Northfield), SMB helped to make the transition easier for me. Throughout high school, she served as my homeroom teacher, English teacher, and Student Council moderator. The Daughters of Charity defied stereotypes. I remember how authentic and welcoming they were. They truly left a mark on me, and on thousands of young women who attended Marillac. They taught us to be leaders and to persevere despite societal pressures or hurdles, to believe in ourselves, and so many other important life lessons. I feel honored to have been educated by SMB and the Daughters of Charity, as they shaped me at a young age to be who I am today!
It was at Marillac that I met Jenny (Litgen) Snyder '90 LdM when I was 14 years old. She continues to be one of my closest and dearest friends, as well as my colleague at Loyola. We studied abroad together, have been in each other's weddings, raised our seven girls together, and now work together. What makes Loyola special is its deep history and broad community. Wherever we are in the world, someone has heard of Loyola Academy. We were recently in Madrid, and someone approached us because they recognized the LA sweatshirt my daughter was wearing.
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Why did you choose to send your daughters to Loyola Academy?
Growing up, Loyola Academy was as much a part of my family as Marillac. My brother attended Loyola and graduated in 1982. My parents were very involved and supporters of both Marillac and Loyola.
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I recall it feeling like Christmas morning when I woke up the day after the Ramble and saw everything they brought home! The decision to assimilate both schools and create a coed learning environment at Loyola enabled my brother to send his children, my niece and two nephews, to his alma mater.
My oldest daughter was in fifth grade when I began working at Loyola. She participated in the LAPTMS advanced math program and became familiar with the school. She knew she wanted to be a Rambler. Working at Loyola, I feel fortunate to have seen my girls every day at school, know their friends, and be so present for their high school years. Loyola has been a wonderful place for my children to attend high school.
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Do you have a favorite quote or mantra that inspires you?
With Cara, I have really learned the importance of kindness. We never know what people are dealing with in their lives. For it is in giving that we receive...Just be kind.
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What makes you most proud at the end of the day?
My four girls make me proud every single day. They are all hard workers at school, in sports, at their jobs, and in life, but more than anything, I am proud that they are kind.
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I think we have all been given a gift, having Cara in our family, and have learned the importance of looking out for one another and appreciating people's differences. Cara has opened doors for our entire family. The people we have met, the volunteering we have done together, and the community we are part of have made all of our lives richer.
I also have a different outlook on life because of her. I try not to sweat the small stuff and celebrate all the small victories. She works harder than anyone to meet milestones, and we are blessed because of her. When I announced her unexpected birth diagnosis to friends and family, I said, "God has given us a gift and chosen us to be her family. We will be a better family because of her," and 13 years later, we are.